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Alicia Josephine “Jo” McAtarian

November 19, 2018

Alicia Josephine McAtarian, nee Freely, passed away Monday, November 19th, 2018 at St. Francis Hospital in Topeka, Kansas. Born to Mark and Anne Freely in New Jersey on September 4th 1929, she was raised in Lyndhurst, New Jersey and graduated from Queen of Peace High School in nearby North Arlington. “Jo” was devoted to her father, whom she lost as a teenager to an accidental death. She earned her RN from St. Michael’s School of Nursing in Newark, New Jersey. She worked as an RN in New Jersey and also in Dublin, Ireland.

It was in Dublin that she met her beloved husband, Francis Joseph McAtarian, at a dance in 1956. The two of them were among the tallest there and saw each other from opposite sides of the room. They were married in 1957, and settled in Rutherford, New Jersey, sharing a home there until Frank’s death in 2004.

One fall Sunday in the early 1970s, not long after the Second Vatican Council, their parish priest at St. Mary’s Catholic Church in Rutherford announced from the pulpit that “For too long now we have been concentrating on the Divine side of Christ, so from now on we will focus on His human side. For this reason, we will no longer kneel for Communion.” This was the last straw. They knew then that the Faith of their fathers was under attack from inside the Catholic Church. From that point forward, they sought out Traditional Catholic priests thrown out of their dioceses for refusing to go along with the changes imposed by the Council. This brought them to places as far away as Powers Lake, North Dakota and St. Mary’s, Kansas.

They were members of the Rutherford Patriots, a group of like-minded conservatives organizing parades and events to counter the flag burners of the Vietnam War era.

In 1980, they heard a report on the radio about an American POW work party in Vietnam sighted by a contractor from Norway. After investigating the story, they founded “Operation: Red Ribbon” to bring awareness to the fact that 2500 American POWs were left behind in prison camps after the signing of the Paris Peace Accords ending the Vietnam War.

Working with Frank in the family business, she drew on her nursing skills, treating her customers as if they were her patients, keeping track of what was going on with them and their families both personally and professionally – to this day, they still ask about her.
Jo moved to St. Mary’s Kansas in 2007, and built a home there, close to her two sons.

Above all she was a devoted wife and mother who fought the good fight and kept the Faith. She will be sorely missed. Prayers and Masses for the repose of her soul are requested in lieu of flowers.

She is survived by her children, Deirdre (Joseph) Dunn; Kathleen (Russell) O’Neill; Mark (Lori) McAtarian; and Patrick (Christina) McAtarian; 26 grandchildren and 9 great grandchildren.

She was preceded in death by her father Mark Freely; mother Anne Freely nee Cashan; sister Mary Suhy; brother Austin Freely and her daughter Sheila Kuhl.

Requiem Mass will be at 7:00 A.M. Saturday, November 24, 2018 at Assumption Chapel in St. Marys. Interment will be in Our Lady Of Peace Cemetery. Visitation for Mrs. McAtarian will be from 2:30 until 4:30 P.M. Friday, November 23, 2018 at Piper Funeral Home. A Rosary will be recited at 5:20 P.M. Friday evening at Assumption Chapel.

Due to Mass schedule changes, a reception following the burial will be held at the home of Patrick & Christina McAtarian, 8232 Willow Creek Dr. Saint Mary’s, KS 66536

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15 thoughts on “Alicia Josephine “Jo” McAtarian

  1. My deepest sympathy for your loss. May your memories of Alicia continually lift your spirits. May you also remember the promises of our Heavenly Father Jehovah. He will swallow up death forever and soon end all our suffering. (Rev. 21:3-5; Isa. 25:8) Peace to you during this difficult time.

  2. I’m so sorry for your loss. I’d like to share some real hope with you. In Psalms 146:4 tells the condition of the dead. He returns to the earth and his thoughts perish. In Acts 24:15 the bible promises a resurrection of our loved ones back to earth. When Jesus resurrected Lazarus from the dead, he brought him back to earth. That was a foregleam of the future. In Psalms 37:11+29 says man will live forever on the earth in peace. That was God’s original purpose, for man to live forever in the garden of eden. God’s purpose hasn’t changed. In Isaiah 45:18 says God created the earth to be inhabited. That’s why he gave his son to die for us, John 3:16, so we could have everlasting life on earth. In Revelation 21:4 says there’ll be no more pain or death. Since there’s no pain or death in jeaven, those are future conditions here on earth. JW.org

  3. We are all so sad to hear of your mom’s passing. We remember all the terrific summers in Wildwood Crest as kids. We had so much fun together. Your family is in our thoughts ❤️

  4. We are all so sad that we will be unable to make it out to Kansas to offer our condolences. Please know that all of you, especially your mom, are in our thoughts and prayers. We all remember with great fondness our wonderful weekends at the McAtarian home in Rutherford where your mom and dad always welcomed us with open arms. We love and miss you all!!

  5. Josephine, you fought a good fight for faith, tradition, and truth. I was happy to be part of the battle with you and Frank. I will always remember out time at Our Lady of Fatima and St. Anthonys, and at your home in Rutherford. Rest in heavenly bliss; surely you’ve earned it.

  6. So many shared memories in and out of both of our homes, especially all the New Year’s Eve parties! We grew up with strong and amazing mothers who never hesitated to stand up for what they believed in. God rest her soul.
    the family, I am so very sorry for the loss of your Mom. As my mother would say, “Those were the days, my friend”.

  7. I’m sorry the distance from Tennessee to Kansas is so far I would be there for the service. Jo was such a sweet person and was my first connection to eventually meeting the rest of the family. She will be missed by all but has made such an empact on not only her family but to so many others. She will be missed until we all will some day meet her again.

  8. Until we meet again Aunt Josie, May God hold you in the palm of His hand.Remembering one of my parent’s dearest friend’s & sending love to my “ cousins” at this sad time. So many memories over the years- especially of the wonderful New Years Eve parties& get togethers in Point Pleasant Beach as you all were driving to or returning from Wildwood Crest. As the song that we often sang at your home says” Those were the days, my friend”. Praying for Aunt Josie & all the family.

    • My parents & I feel so sad that we cannot make it to the wake or funeral.We are praying for your mom& all of you. Aunt Josie gave me wonderful advice about nursing , when I was a student & I carry that advice with me to this day. I’m sure she understands that the reason I can’t fly out is because of working at the hospital on Saturday. May she Rest In Peace.

  9. Another chapter of our lives has closed leaving only warm memories of her determination, generosity, and strong character.
    Goodbye Jo and may God bless

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